Friday, February 28, 2014

What to do when God feels distant

                             There are times when God seems so close that we are filled with a glorious feeling of love.  At other times he can seem so distant it's as if he has turned his back.  God lets this happen for our good.  Still, that distant feeling can be hard to bear.
                             Look for a cause.
                             Sometimes we cause distance to crop up between us without even realizing it.  We may have become overly-confident of our spiritual strength and yielded to temptation.  Or, we neglected prayer or Sunday Mass.
                            Pray your way back.
                            Distance can lead to discouragement, but don't let that keep you from prayer.  Reaching out to God is the surest way to find your way back.  Enlist the help of the saints or the Blessed Mother.
                            Mediate on what you know.
                            Regularly repeat God's promises of salvation, Jesus' pledge of eternal love, memories of God's past blessings, anything that reminds you of his love.  Focus on these beautiful thoughts over and over.
                            Seek Reconciliation.
                            A common cause for distance is unconfessed sin.  Are you weighed down by a fault or sin you are avoiding facing?  Consider making a full Confession and seek the Sacrament regularly.  Perform an act of penance, such as fasting, to take the focus off yourself.  Then you will find he has been beside you all along.

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