It is human nature to want the good opinion of other people. Toddlers and children seek parents' approval as a measure of their growth. Teens want approval from peers, coaches, teachers, colleges. As adults, though, it's important to shake off the habit of trying to please or impress others when God's opinion is what matters in the end. "Am I now seeking the favor of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men?" (Galatians 1:10).
Whose standard is it anyway?
Others tend to judge you from their own perspectives, their own interests, and through their own filters. People see only your actions. God sees, your heart.
Don't defend yourself.
Make consistently good choices and you won't have to defend or explain. Regularly read Scripture to remember how to please God. Follow the Commandments and the Beatitudes. If people legitmately criticize you, gratefully receive their feedback. Reject the backbiters.
Be your own master.
Don't let an employer, a friend, or a relative gain too strong of a hold on you. Make your own decisions and choices without pressure. Otherwise you will find yourself suspending your better judgement in favor of theirs.
Stay who you are.
Don't try to appear better than those around you or to hide the real you. God loves you just as you are.
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