The Do's and Don'ts of Prom

                  How to handle Prom like a Pro

                  Preparing for prom can be a stressful experience.  But it doesn't have to be as long as you follow a few simple rules.  No one will notice if you forget which fork to use first at dinner ----- but they will take note if you fail to practice basic do's and don'ts like the following :

1.  Don't Assume :  The rules of prom etiquette have changed.  Today, the person who asks --- boy or girl ---- is expected to pick up the prom tickets.  Everything else is up for negotiation, with the costs often split.  So make a point of talking about it before the big night ---- it will ensure you avoid awkward moments.
2. Do wear a classic tux :  If you've ever seen as old photo of your father in a powder blue tuxedo with satin piping, you already know why you can't go wrong with a classic black tux.  If you insist on standing out from the crowd, add a splash of color with a vest, cummerbund and /or tie that will match the color of your date's dress.
3. Don't text and talk on your phone :  Today it's common to see everyone on their smartphones, snapping photos and recording video throughout the night.  But the old rules still apply, if it means ignoring your date, keep your phone in your pocket.
4. Do follow old-fashioned etiquette :  Prom is still an occasion where you'll spot that nearly extinct virtue ---- chivalry.  That means holding the door for your date, letting her get into the limo first, and seating her before taking your own chair at the restaurant.
5. Don't forget to make dinner reservations :  You don't want to show up at the restaurant and find out there's a waiting list.  Make a reservation and don't be late.
6. Do plan ahead :  Ask your date what color she's chosen for her prom dress so the corsage you buy her and the ribbons don't clash with her dress.  Also be sure to ask her if she'd prefer a wrist corsage or a pin-on corsage.